Not your usual dating app
Text-first personal ads for open-minded people. Say what you're looking for in your own words. No swiping, no one-word bios, no games. Free to use, with Supporter upgrades when you want more visibility, reach, and control.
Text-first personal ads for open-minded people. Say what you're looking for in your own words. No swiping, no one-word bios, no games. Free to use, with Supporter upgrades when you want more visibility, reach, and control.
For anyone who wants to say what they're actually looking for. Casual dating, open relationships, kink-friendly connections, something platonic. Post across 6 categories, tag posts as kink-friendly or vanilla, and search by 90+ roles.
For people frustrated with classifieds where anyone can message you, or swipe apps where profiles say nothing. Here, you control who sees your posts, who can reply, and what a reply needs to include. Available worldwide on iOS and Android, free to use.
AseeksB sits between two categories that have historically served different users: classified-ad platforms (text-first, direct intent, no profile mechanics) and swipe-based dating apps (photo-first, algorithmic, mutual match required). AseeksB takes the text-first ad format from the former and the native mobile app, safety controls, and moderation tools from the latter, while removing what did not work from either. It is free to use, available worldwide on iOS and Android, with a Supporter upgrade for people who want more visibility, more reach, and more control.
See how we stack up against classifieds sites, kink-friendly social networks, and swipe-based dating apps.
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| Feature | AseeksB | Classifieds | Kink social | Swipe apps |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Native iOS & Android app | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✓ |
| Text-first personal ads | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Free to use | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ |
| 6 post categories | ✓ | Varies | ✕ | ✕ |
| 90+ kink role search | ✓ | ✕ | ✓ | ✕ |
| Couples-friendly | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | Varies |
| Control who can message you | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Control who sees your posts | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Require photos in replies | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Minimum message length | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| One message until you reply | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Report after unmatching | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Post stats and reply rates | ✓ Supporter | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| See who viewed your post | ✓ Supporter | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Advanced search filters | ✓ Supporter | ✕ | Varies | ✕ |
| Traveling Mode | ✓ Supporter | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Up to 7 active posts | ✓ Supporter | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Supporter-only mode | ✓ Supporter | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Unlimited messages and post views | ✓ Supporter | Varies | Varies | ✕ |
| Rewinds, drafts, Title Mode, Dark Mode | ✓ Supporter | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
Unlike classifieds, you control who can message you, filter by intent, and require photos in replies. Supporter adds the power-user layer: stats, viewer insights, advanced search, Traveling Mode, more active posts, and unlimited messages and views.
Real posts from real people. Here's what the app actually looks like.
Every post has a minimum character requirement. No more one-word bios or profiles that only link to social media. Say what you want, how you want to say it. With Supporter, run up to 7 active posts at once, each for a different kind of connection.
Set your post's audience by gender, age, and distance. Choose whether traveling users can see your post. Only the people you want to hear from can message you. Hide posts or entire profiles that don't interest you.
Report posts, profiles, or messages that break our guidelines, even after you've unmatched. Reported content is removed from everyone's board. One initial message per post until you reply. No pestering.
The full version for people who want more visibility into their posts, more ways to search and post, more control over who reaches them, and fewer limits while they use the app.
Visibility
See who viewed your post, compare post stats and reply rates, and understand which posts are actually working.
Reach
Use Traveling Mode, post and search from other locations, and keep up to 7 active posts at once.
Control
Use Supporter-only mode, filter for Supporter posts, limit who can message you, and use advanced post and search filters.
Convenience
Get unlimited messages and post views, rewinds, drafts, Title Mode, Dark Mode, one free Letter per month, and priority feature requests.
Free on iOS and Android.
On swipe-based apps, the photo is the primary filter. You swipe on an impression, match, and then figure out compatibility. On AseeksB, you write what you're looking for before any conversation begins, and so does everyone else. The result is that the first message in any thread is already about something: the person read your ad and decided it matched what they wanted.
Most dating apps give you one profile to represent yourself. AseeksB is built around posts instead. With Supporter, you can keep up to 7 active posts at once across 6 categories: a casual ad, a kink-specific ad, a couples-seeking ad, or anything else you want to separate, each with its own audience settings and messaging controls.
Posters set who can see their post (by gender, age, distance) and what a sender must include to reach them (a photo, a minimum-length message, or both). Senders are limited to one opening message until the poster replies. These are structural controls enforced technically by the app, not optional settings.
On most apps you post and never learn whether anyone saw it. Supporter turns that silence into something you can read: who viewed your post, how many people replied, who it reached by age, gender, and distance, and which posts are working. The point is diagnostic, not surveillance. If a post gets views but no replies, the wording needs work; if it gets few views, the problem is reach. More on getting more replies.
AseeksB supports kink-friendly content natively. Users can tag posts with up to 5 kink-related roles from a list of 90+, and searchers can filter results by any combination of those roles. This makes AseeksB one of the only platforms where kink role specificity is a first-class search feature.
AseeksB is free to use. You can post, search, message, and use core audience controls without paying. AseeksB Supporter is the upgrade for people who want the full version: post stats, viewer insights, reply rates, advanced search, kink-role search, Traveling Mode, Supporter-only mode, more active posts, unlimited messages and post views, rewinds, drafts, Title Mode, Dark Mode, one free Letter per month, and priority feature requests. Free lets you use AseeksB. Supporter gives you more visibility, more reach, more control, and fewer limits.
Yes. All key features are free to use. Supporter is optional, but unlocks the tools active users want most: post stats, viewer insights, reply rates, advanced search, Traveling Mode, Supporter-only mode, more active posts, unlimited messages and views, rewinds, drafts, Title Mode, Dark Mode, a free monthly Letter, and priority feature requests.
Yes. AseeksB is a native app on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play). It is not web-only.
Yes. AseeksB is available worldwide. Users can post from their current location or use traveling mode to search and post from any city.
Yes. Couples can post ads and search for other couples or individuals. Full shared couples accounts are on the product roadmap.
AseeksB uses the same text-first personal ad format as Craigslist Personals (which closed in 2018), but adds a native mobile app, kink role search, audience controls, messaging controls, and post-unmatch reporting.
More questions? See the full FAQ or the About AseeksB page.